As society develops, prejudices and perspectives on the LGBT community are gradually becoming more open. However, there are still many questions surrounding how homosexual people, in general, and gay men, in particular, will have sex. To answer that question, please join Youlink to learn about issues related to gay relationships through the article below!

1. How to have gay sex?

In a gay male relationship, the person who takes the active role or the person who will use the penis for penetration will be called the “top”; the other person will play the female role and will be called the “bottom.” In cases where two people can swap positions regardless of “top” or “bottom,” it will be classified as versatile.

Who is “top” and who is “bottom” depends on many factors (Source: Collected)

Separate roles in a gay relationship are often based on psychological factors, personal preferences, bedroom skills, or even penis size to decide who is “top” and who is not “bottom”. When having sex, gay men can use the following methods:

1.1 Anal sex

During gay anal sex, the person playing the “top” role will use his penis to penetrate the anus of the “bottom”. At this time, the anus of the “bottom” plays the same role as the female vagina, bringing pleasure to the “top” through friction.

Men's G-spot in the anus (Source: Collected)

Biologically, a man's G-spot is located in the prostate, so when the “top” penis touches this point, the “bottom” will reach orgasm. Besides, the anus is also a place where many sensory nerves are concentrated, so having sex through the anus also brings sexual stimulation.

1.2 Oral sex

If the “bottom” is not comfortable having sex through the back door, both of you can use oral sex instead. By combining your tongue, lips, and teeth to stimulate the head of the penis rhythmically, you can make him sublimate in pleasure.

Oral sex combined with sex toys (Source: Collected)

During oral sex, you can also use sex toys to stimulate the urethra to increase sexual pleasure. The use of additional “love” tools is also a trend loved by many gay couples today.

2. Be careful when having sex with men

In gay couples, whether having oral or anal sex, there is a risk of sexually transmitted diseases. According to many surveys, the rate of sexually transmitted diseases among gay men is especially high because during anal intercourse, they are easily scratched, increasing the possibility of infection.

Use condoms: Combining condoms with lubricant helps make sex smoother and limits damage caused by friction.
Avoid having sex with multiple people: It is difficult to know who is at risk of carrying the virus.
Regular health check-ups: Sexual diseases need time to incubate, so regular check-ups to detect and treat the disease promptly are essential.
Take PrEP: This is an HIV antiretroviral drug that helps prevent infection for people who have not been infected with HIV but are at high risk of transmitting HIV during sex.

Hopefully, YouLink's sharing on the topic of gay relationships will help you understand more about the LGBT community as well as know how to protect yourself when having sex.